No matter what. No matter when. No matter where.
Don't try to be someone else at work vs. home - instead be your self always.
Give yourself time to be You. Find the things you like, recognize the things you don't like, and you'll realize the energy you once spent trying to be the best 'professional' or the best 'wife' or the best 'mother' will ultimately translate because you will be the best You.
You are You. No matter what. No matter when. No matter where.